1. The best way to overcome it----so at least it seems to me----is to make your interests gradually wider and more impersonal,
    克服怕死的最好办法 -- 至少在我看来是这样 -- 就是逐渐使自己的兴趣更加广泛，

2. "First come, first served " is an impersonal remark.
    “先到，先得”是不以特定人为对象的语句。