1. But the latest research seems to imply that without the software of emotional maturity and self-knowledge, the hardware of academic training alone is worth less and less.
    但最新的研究似乎表明，缺乏情感成熟和自我了解这一软件，单靠纯学院式的培训这一硬件是没有用的。

2. This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent.
    这种承诺并非意味着完全把自己交给对方，也并不是说这一关系一定要永远不变。

3. Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness.
    真正的爱并不意味着永远幸福。