1. But spoiling children with material things does little to reduce parental guilt (since parents never feel they've given enough),
    但是, 用物质的东西来宠爱孩子几乎不能减轻父母的内疚感（因为父母从不会感到他们给孩子的东西已经够了),

2. Basically, most students leave knowing they will have to do without their accustomed parental protection and learn to take care of themselves.
    事实上，大多数学生在离家时，都知道他们将在没有原来所习惯了的父母照顾的情况下自己生活, 学会自己照料自己。

3. But what sort of parental stimulation should it be?
    但是父母应该给予怎样一种激励呢？

4. It removes the father from the household, the only sensible basis for a working parental relationship;
    离婚使父亲离开了家庭，这惟一的父亲与子女间关系赖以存在的合理基础不复存在。