1. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings,
    爱一个人，就是将其视作一个独立的人，有自己的价值观、思想和感情。

2. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person.
    爱一个人，就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。

3. It is a false love that cements one person to another in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow.
    两个人密不可分，再无其他发展的余地，这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。

4. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now.
    爱一个人，爱她/他今日之所作所为，也要视其所能为。

5. I am afraid we killed many an innocent person carrying nothing more lethal than a stick.
    恐怕被我们打死的不少人是无辜的，他们手中最致命的东西只不过是一根棍子而已。

6. I felt like the same person, but outside I looked different.
    我觉得自己还是原来的我，可是外观上我却有了变化。

7. I am a person, a sexual being, a person who struggles, for whom there are important issues to explore, new things to learn, challenges to meet, beginnings to make, risks to take, endings to think about.
    我是一个人，一个有性别的生命，一个努力奋斗的人，她要探索重大问题，要学习新的东西，要迎接新的挑战，要有新的开端，要担当风险，要考虑结局。

8. For him, schools are an out-of-date concept from the days of the town crier (市政传令员), when it was difficult to get information and a central person was needed to communicate knowledge.
    在他看来，从靠市政传令员口述传达重要信息的时代以后，学校已是过时了。当时人们很难得到信息，因而需要一位重要人士来传递信息。

9. Focus on the first seven seconds. What did you feel and think? How did you "read" the other person?
    将注意力集中在最初的七秒钟，你当时有何感想？你是如何“解读”他人的？

10. For instance, I can sit in a restaurant with a white person.
    比如, 我可以在餐馆和一位白人坐在一起。