1. The core of emotional self-regulation is the ability to delay an immediate reward in the service of a goal.
    自我调节情感的核心就是有能力做到为了某一目的而推迟近在眼前的利益。

2. No matter what their I Q, once again it was emotional intelligence that separated the stars from the average performers.
    不论他们的智商有多高，还是情感智能使得杰出人物有别于表现平庸者。

3. And the main obligation is to provide both emotional and practical care for children.
    而主要的责任就是给孩子感情上和实际上的关爱。

4. As Daniel Goleman suggests in his new book, Emotional Intelligence, the latest scientific findings seem to indicate that intelligent but inflexible people don't have the right stuff in an age when the adaptive ability is the key to survival.
    正如丹尼尔·戈尔曼在他的新书《情感智能》中所说，最新的科研结果似乎表明，在一个适应能力是生存关键的年代，聪明但缺乏灵活性的人并不具备这种适应的才能。

5. A full 80 percent comes from other factors, including what I call emotional intelligence.
    而其他因素占了整整80%，包括我所说的情感智能。

6. Slowly, still holding her hand, I become aware that I do not mind this emotional battle, that in fact, it was a privilege she has allowed me, and I would do it again, gladly.
    我依然握着她的手，渐渐地，我意识到我并不害怕这种感情之战，意识到这实际是她赐予我的特殊荣幸，而且我还乐意再来一次。

7. “The idea that the family is a stable and orderly unit in which father serves as economic provider and mother serves as emotional care giver is a myth,” said Judith Bruce, a leading author of the study.
    这份研究报告的一位主要撰稿人朱迪斯·布鲁斯说："认为家庭是个稳定有序的单位、父亲是经济支柱、母亲是情感给予者的观点已经不现实了。

8. They do not make the further intellectual and emotional effort needed to comprehend form in its full spatial existence.
    但他们没有在智力和感情上进一步努力去理解存在于空间的整个形态。

9. It is a sign, in short, of emotional intelligence. And it doesn't show up on an IQ test.
    简言之，这是情感智能的体现，而这是在智力测试里表现不出来的。

10. When the majority of the children murdered in this country are killed by their parents, many of whom say they were trying to discipline the child for behavior like blocking the TV or crying too much, it suggests a demand for basic emotional education
    当这个国家里死去的孩子大多死于父母之手，而这样的父母大都说他们是想规范孩子的行为，要他们不要挡着电视，不要大哭不休，当发生了这些现象，这就意味着需要进行基本的情感教育。