1. It seems that love has got out of hand.
    爱情现在似乎已经失控。

2. Where the raising of children and the investment of both parents in the children's lives were guaranteed by bonds of friendship between the parents, which were based on rational love.
    在这样的家庭里，父母间由于理性的爱所带来的友好关系保证了他们能共同抚养孩子和共同在孩子身上投入。

3. If marriage exists only as a romantic relationship that can be ended at will, and family exists only by virtue of bonds of affection, both marriage and family come second to the search for love.
    如果婚姻仅是一种可随意终止的浪漫关系，如果家庭仅由感情来维系，那么婚姻和家庭与追求爱情相比就只能退居其次了。

4. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings,
    爱一个人，就是将其视作一个独立的人，有自己的价值观、思想和感情。

5. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person.
    爱一个人，就要对他作为独立个体的需求做出回应。

6. If I love you, I trust that you will accept my caring and my love and that you won't deliberately hurt me.
    爱一个人，就要相信他会接受我的关心，接受我的爱，相信他不会故意伤害我；

7. I trust that you will find me attractive, and that you won't abandon me; I trust the mutual nature of our love.
    相信自己对他有吸引力，相信他不会抛弃我；相信爱是相互的。

8. In a love relationship there are times when I am bored, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times I feel I can't move forward.
    爱人之间也会有时感到厌烦，有时想放弃，有时感到压力，有时感到羁绊。

9. In other words, love comes into an imperfect world to make it possible to live.
    换言之，是爱使我们能够在这不完美的世界上生活下去。

10. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships.
    爱一个人，就要鼓励其与他人建立联系。